Yesterday I've posted on one of the quarrellings I had with Laogong, so now I shall begin with the second one...

20Sept2005

Laogong has to work in the night later on that day, but he did not rest more...He took me to Dolby Ghaut to meet up with his army days' fren (Mark) to attend his birthday celebration...Laogong told me that Mark has a cafe aroung Parklane, and so I thought that the place Laogong mentioned was ParkMall...I said I think I knew where that place was to Laogong then we took the mrt to Dolby Ghaut...Upon reaching the place I took Laogong to ParkMall, and he too called up Mark to ask more about the place...

After awhile, we both realised that it was the wrong place so Laogong and I walked on...I thought he knew already how to go as he held on to my hands brought me walking further and further...Laogong began being aware of the road we're taking and then asked me where is the place...I said I was'nt sure at all, I walked on only because I thought Laogong knew how to go there already...Laogong then got fed up and yelled at me, asking me why I never tell him I don't know how to go...I got angry immediately that I too retaliated...how was i supposed to know when he was the one holding my hands bringing me walking around...

Laogong called his friend on his handphone and then scolded vulgurities through, telling Mark that it was all my fault...I was really pissed off by then and when Laogong handed me his phone wanting me to heard his friend on the directions to his cafe, I walked off ignoring Laogong...Laogong cursed and scolded me more so I yelled back I don't know anything, don't bother me!! Laogong got furious as well, but then tried to remain his composure and also tried to hold my hands again...I refused to let him and he berated me more...Asking me why I was so unreasonable, making a big fuss...I kept quiet knowing that he'll not stop talking..How could you dare said that it was my fault when you're the one who started scolding me just because I did'nt know the way to your friend's stupid cafe?? If you're so clever then why sole my help?? I was really upset and angry about his behaviour...

Lastly, he managed to find the stupid cafe and got to meet up with Mark...Mark saw me and apologized to me for causing Laogong and me to quarrel...I smiled at him as I did'nt want to be a wrecker on his birthday..I still ignored Laogong...I hated the fact that Laogong was able to be happy again after meeting his friend and pretending to be nice to me, but eventually I relented...We left the place at about 4pm to walk back to Plaza Singapura as we're meeting Kevin...On the way back, Laogong and I talked then I told him that he has'nt return me the money I had used to buy the presents and movie tickets..I told him that I'm broke as I could'nt afford to spent so much...He got irritated and we quarrelled again..

All the way to Plaza Sing, I ignored Laogong and walked on my own as if Laogong was invisible...Laogong was fed up but he could'nt do anything...I kept remaining in that state then until I was really fumming, I walked towards the mrt...Laogong panicked and immediately got up to grabbed me and stop me from going...I was going nuts and felt liked breaking down...Laogong tried to get me out of the mrt station by pulling my hands but i struggled free of him and told him not to touch me...Just then my handbag spolit and the beads caming falling off one by one without much of my notice...Laogong swiftly went to pick up the beads and repair my handbag...

It was 5pm and i gave in to him as Kevin was reaching soon, I stood outside of StarBucks while Laogon stood closed by...I still could'nt bring myself to cool down and talk to Laogong...Before long Kevin arrived and he saw Laogong and me with gloomy faces, he knew that we've quarrelled...I walked in front of them to the basement then we sat down at KFC...I sat at a corner, while Laogong chatted with Kevin...Kevin tried consoling me but I did'nt talked much...Laogong began feeling moody and was not in the mood to discuss with Kevin about his policy..Laogong was was sad that I was ignoring him, Kevin then helped Laogong by talking to me...Kevin tried to cheer me up as we walked around PS...I was no longer angry by the time we've reached the Cinema level...I saw a arcade with those plush toy catchers and walked in...Laogong immediately knew what to do...

Kevin asked me if I was still angry cuz Laogong kept trying to catch one of those plush toys for...I told Kevin that my anger has ceased and Kevin asked me to talk to Laogong...I did not talk to Laogong but I stood beside him watching him trying hard to catch the plush toy...Alas, Laogong managed to catch a big kitty for me and I was happy...Someone by the side watching then berated her guy for being useless as Laogong got the plush toy for me but her guy could'nt...I was elated and proud of Laogong...Laogong was running late for his work so then we quickly parted with Kevin and thanked him as well and got to the taxi stand to catch a cab back to Boon Lay...

This is all about our day...